19 Jun 2008

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Once again, welcome back to our weekly CF.

Our topic for last meeting was "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". It's mainly about bgr. hahaa ... sounds so interesting. I think is suitable for those ppl who intend to get into a relationshipf or maybe those who already in a relationship and of cuz the topic suits everyone of us.

We'd Pastor Andy as our speaker. After playing the ice breaker prepared by Anittah and worship session, we went into the topic. Ps Andy told us about his love story from a young teenager till he married. And yeah, it was really great and we're shocked about the process how he got married. Once again, he told us that faith and God's will hav to be followed.

Next, he told us abt the ground rules that hav to be obeyed in relationship. it's always wise that put marriage as the 1st priority in your relationship, ask yourself why you need a relationship. is becuz ppl have and i wanna too, or becuz the appearance or wat sort of. anyways, he told us the responsibilities in a relationship. someone ppl will blame each other when anything goes wrong in the relationship. therefore the main thing that has to be in a relationship is faith and commitment. before marriage, strictly NO pre-marital sex. as ps andy said "once its broken, it considered sold". yeah, we hav to bear the responsibility. it is not for fun or wat else. therefore, think be4 u do. He proposed that b4 one got financial steady or the heart is unready, pls do not step in the line as u may not able to handle such problems. think of ur future when ya wanna get started. think about the future of u and ur partner.

Ps andy's words opened our mindset. so do think twice before u start a relationship or do anything.

that's all for the time. see ya again in room 209 1pm this friday.

p/s: from today onwards, cg will be havin in Oasis. for those that do not know where is oasis, pls contact ur cg leader or any of the committees. anyway, here's the map of oasis. is just 2nd floor above of IDP, right opposite of Taylors College. Look for number 18 or the small sign board "bookstore HQ".


GBU.

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